Okay, now listen up please. I’m not going to insult you or attack your beliefs. I’m also not going to say that your religion is wrong as I’m Jewish, so I can see where religious beliefs fit in to the equation and would, thus, ask you that you refrain from telling me that I don’t get it.
So, here’s the deal: There has been, and I imagine will continue to be, a great number of boys and girls of various ages who post questions on this board about masturbating. They want to know if it’s okay to do it, because clearly society continues to keep them in the dark about it, or if anything to present negative aspects about it. It’s quite common for boys to joke about it, or to insult their peers by claiming that they do it (as though it’s something to be ashamed of). They come up with insults like "jack off" or "wanker" or "go f*** yourself" or other masturbation derivatives, to make the concept of it something bad or wrong.
And for girls, well…it’s just not done. Some girls seem to be unaware that they even can do it. And if they find themselves doing it, they are labeled as "sluts" or "whores" or "nymphos".
Parents and religions teach these kids that it is wrong to do it, and that it’s a sin. And if they do it, they are going to hell. Many boys still believe that it will make their penis fall off, that they will run out of sperm, that they will go blind or get really sick. Many boys who feel that masturbating makes them gay. Many girls believe that if they masturbate, they are no longer virgins and/or that no guy would want them.
Society is poisoning our children against it, and so many come here to ask their peers for advice, information, and to clear up misconceptions. And then you guys come along and spout off about how they are wrong to do it, that it’s a sin, that they are going to go to hell. You tell them to just go and find a gf/bf, when many of them are 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14 and have no business dating or having actual sex.
Look, some of these kids come here because they are scared, unsure or want answers that their school and parents aren’t giving them. And your fear tactics and religious quotations are not helping them. Please keep your bible thumping for the church and stop scaring kids away. It’s fine if you want to believe these things, but these kids are probably hearing it enough already and don’t need it from here.
In conclusion, masturbation is fine, normal and healthy for boys and girls of all ages and marital statuses to do. And don’t let anybody tell you different!
Also, while I’m on the subject, I’d like to say to all the boys who come on this site…
Your penis size is normal; stop worrying.